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September 2, 2010
Janelle Sorenson

ANOTHER STUDY ABOUT EARLY PUBERTY - WHAT'S THE CHEMICAL CONNECTION?

Another Study About Early Puberty – What’s the Chemical Connection? Janelle Sorensen Tuesday, August 10, 2010 ShareThis You hear it all the time, kids grow like weeds. And, an increasing body of research is revealing that kids are growing up faster than ever before. According to a new study published in Pediatrics, young girls are increasingly reaching puberty earlier — putting them at increased risk for breast cancer and type 2 diabetes as well as a laundry list of psychological impacts and high-risk behaviors. How much faster are our girls growing up? In the United States in the early 1800s, breast buds and menarche arrived around ages 13 and 16 respectively. Those changes now come aroundages 9 and a half and 12 and a half! Lead author of this newest study, Dr. Frank Biro, is cited in Time Magazine as speculating that the primary driver behind this shift “may be overweight and obesity, because estrogen is sequestered in fat tissue. But environmental exposures to chemicals — including pesticides and endocrine-disrupting chemicals (EDCs) like bisphenol A (BPA), commonly found in plastics, and phthalates, which are contained in many personal-care products — could also play a role.” This is the latest in a growing body of evidence showing that both girls and boys are developing earlier than ever before and that common chemicals in everyday products are suspect. In an in-depth article from The Economist’s Intelligent Life magazine, aptly called Puberty Blues, author Fiona Neill highlights the complexities of the issue saying, “the debate over EDCs is mired in controversy, akin to the debate over global warming, with environmentalists on one side, big business on the other, and scientists caught in the middle. It is a particularly tricky area of research because we are all now exposed to a cocktail of EDCs in our daily life. This makes it hard to measure how any individual compound might affect the endocrine system. It is almost impossible to measure individual exposure. And it’s likely that this chemical cocktail is passed from mother to baby in the womb.” Endocrinologist Professor Niels Skakkebaek, a pioneer in the field and one of the first scientists to warn of the dangers of endocrine disrupting chemicals, is quoted at length about EDCs and early puberty. “Children are extremely sensitive to hormones before puberty,” says Skakkebaek, “because they are producing so little that small amounts can make a difference.” Skakkebaek’s list of key suspects include, phthalates, Bisphenol A, parabens, and phyto-oestrogens (“like lavender, fennel and tea-tree, and perhaps most significantly, given its widespread use in America, genistein in soya”). Neill also cites Skakkabaek as saying “American children have a particularly high exposure to EDCs because 80% of American beef is still treated with growth promoters. In most cases a tag containing a mix of natural sex hormones (a combination of oestrogen, testosterone or progesterone) and synthetic hormones (zerinol, trenbolone and melengestrol) is implanted as a pellet in the ear of beef cattle in order to get the calves to grow and gain weight faster.” What Can You Do? It’s better to be safe than sorry. We know little about how the human body copes with the chemicals that have become ubiquitous in our daily life. Until we understand the impacts of this chemical cocktail more clearly, you can prevent exposures by taking these simple steps: Eat healthy. Diet is a major exposure route for EDCs. Phthalates are often found in fatty foods such as milk, butter, and meats – so reduce your consumption of these foods or opt for low-fat options. Fats are important for child development, though, so look for plant-based options like avocados, flax seed, walnuts, and almonds. Bisphenol-A is used in the lining of canned foods so opt for fresh or frozen. Choose USDA certified organic beef instead of conventionally-raised to avoid exposure to growth hormones. Moderate soya consumption. (Consult with your pediatrician about significant dietary changes.)




August 16, 2010
Elizabeth Arkin
Vista del Mar

HOW TO BUILD YOUR OWN PERSONAL ADOPTIVE COMMUNITY
 
To All Post Adoptive Families and Your Children
 (An informal gathering of adoptive families with children)
 
When:
Sunday, September 26th
 
Time:
 1pm-4pm
(No cost)
 
Place:
Vista Del Mar Child & Family Services
Shuken Auditorium **Directions attached
3200 Motor Avenue, LA 90034
 
Our objective is to help you create your personal Adoptive Family Social & Support and Play Groups.  We will help families to connect with one another based on the ages of their children as well as by location and interests.
 
Experienced Adoption/Play Group Coordinators & Facilitators will provide insight into the benefits of Adoption Friendship groups, give instruction on how to get started, offer suggestions for activities and programs, answer questions, and share informational hand-outs.
 
Studies confirm that participating in Adoption Groups provides a wealth of benefits to adoptees and their families. We hope that you can join us for a fun and productive afternoon.
 
An RSVP (even if it’s last minute) including the age(s) of your child(ren) will be greatly appreciated so we can plan for supplies, activities and hand-outs.   (Childcare will be available and free)
RSVP to Elizabeth at earkin@vistadelmar.org or 310-836-1223, ext. 482
 
Please bring your favorite snack


August 10, 2010
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August 5, 2010
La Leche League

BREASTFEEDING AWARENESS MONTH

WORLD BREASTFEEDING MONTH
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JULY 22, 2010
NURSING SCHOOL BLOG


50 FABULOUS SUPERFOODS FOR PREGNANCY AND POSTPARTUM

If there's ever a time to be thoughtful about your diet, it's during your pregnancy and postpartum period. The nutrients that you take in are what builds and feeds your baby essential that you give it only the best. Here are 50 foods that nurses agree on for next or expecting moms. They pack a nutritional punch for pregnant, postpartum, and breastfeeding women.

Liquids
Now more than ever, it's essential that you stay hydrated to provide your baby with the water it needs.
Increase your water consumption: Whether you're pregnant or breastfeeding, you need to up your water consumption.
100% fruit juice: Although actually eating fruit is ideal, fruit juice is a good substitute for sodas and other drinks with empty calories.
Protein
Proteins are the building blocks for your baby. Eat these foods to make sure you're getting enough.
Chicken: Chicken offers moms a good, low-fat source of much-needed protein.
Peanut butter: Peanut butter is filling, full of folate, and a good source of protein.
Unprocessed meats: Meats in their natural, but fully cooked, state are an excellent source of protein.
Soy: While you're dealing with morning sickness, soy can help you get the protein you need.
Couscous: Flavor up couscous or eat it plain to get protein in pregnancy.
Fiber
Although hormones may have your system backed up, you can stay regular with the help of these fiber-full foods.
Raspberries: Enjoy some tart raspberries for sweetness and fiber.
Apple: Grab an apple on your way out the door for some fiber on the go.
Figs: Figs pack in an amazing amount of fiber, calcium, and iron.
Bananas: Bananas can fill you up with both fiber and potassium.
Vitamin C
Build collagen, healthy skin, and bones with this important vitamin.
Oranges: Many women crave oranges in pregnancy, and it's no wonder why-oranges are packed with the Vitamin C you need.
Lemon: Satisfy your sour craving and a need for Vitamin C with lemons.
Green pepper: Get your Vitamin C by throwing some green peppers in your salad.
Orange juice: Orange juice can give you Vitamin C, folic acid, potassium, and more for pregnancy.
Watermelon: Watermelon offers a hydrating, Vitamin C-packed treat.
Strawberries: Throw some strawberries in your smoothie or salad for Vitamin C.
Folic Acid
Ward off common birth defects by eating these foods rich in folic acid.
Asparagus: Folic acid can be found in asparagus.
Corn: On the cob, creamed, or even frozen, corn can give you the folic acid your baby needs.
Spinach: This dark green leaf is full of folic acid.
Peas: Peas are good for naturally occurring folate.
Beans: Beans are great for protein, folate, and complex carbohydrates.
Chickpeas: Enjoy some hummus to get your serving of folic acid.
Zinc
Zinc is great for keeping away colds drug-free in pregnancy, plus the careful building and functioning of DNA.
Eggs: Eggs aren't just great for protein-they can pack in the zinc you need for breastfeeding.
Mozzarella: Mozzarella cheese is packed with zinc for moms.
Lobster: Crack open a lobster for a tasty serving of zinc.
Calcium
Protect your bones and give your baby's teeth and bones a good start by loading up on calcium rich food.
Yogurt: Yogurt is a good source of protein and calcium, and tastes great with fresh fruit and nuts.
Milk: Lowfat milk offers so much per serving, especially calcium and protein.
Go nuts: Almonds and hazelnuts can provide you with some of your calcium needs.
Raw vegetables: Many raw vegetables offer a good serving of calcium.
Broccoli: Broccoli isn't just a great source of calcium-it has Vitamin C, folate, and B6.
Carbohydrates
Long-lasting carbohydrates can offer fullness and the energy you need to keep going.
Oatmeal: This fiber-full breakfast and snack is great for carbohydrates, too.
Whole grain bread: Whole grain bread can give you a good dose of fiber and nutrition while offering healthy carbs.
Whole flour: Whole flour offers a great way to get your zinc.
Popcorn: A handful of air-popped popcorn offers fiber and useful carbs.
Blueberries: Keep your energy levels high with these berries that are packed with antioxidants, vitamins, and minerals.
Whole grain cereal: Whole grain cereal is easy to eat and full of good carbs, vitamins, and other nutrients.
Brown rice: Brown rice can give you long-lasting energy.
Iron
Be sure you're getting enough iron to keep your energy levels up.
Lean beef: Lean beef is a good source of protein and iron.
Artichokes: Add artichokes to pastas and salads for an iron boost.
Dried fruit: Dried fruit like prunes and raisins are great for iron.
Mollusks: Enjoy mollusks including oysters, clams, and scallops for iron.
Vitamin A
Eat these foods for Vitamin A, which is essential to embryonic growth.
Carrots: Carrots don't just help your eyesight-they're packed with the Vitamin A you need.
Cream cheese: Spread some cream cheese on a fortified whole grain bagel for a little tasty Vitamin A.
Sweet potatoes: Enjoy a sweet potato baked or even as sweet potato fries to pack a Vitamin A punch.
Fatty Acids
These foods with fatty acid are incredibly valuable for growth and development of your baby.
Seeds: Seeds an supply your body with essential fatty acids.
Flaxseeds: Flaxseeds are a good source of Omega 3 fatty acids.
Shrimp: Throw some shrimp on the barbeque, in your salad, or in your pasta to up your Omega 3 fatty acid intake.
Salmon: Salmon is a powerhouse full of DHA, and an even help your mood.
Mood
Treat yourself now and then for a mommy pick me up.
Dark chocolate: For new moms, dark chocolate full of antioxidants just might be the ticket to busting a bad mood.



July 15, 2010
Zatul Hijanah Ramzi
Lactation Counselor/Columnist for Mami & Baby Magazine

New Guideline for Human Milk Storage for Home Use for Full-Term Infants

(Original Protocol March 2004; Revision #1 March 2010)
Resource : The Academy of Breastfeeding Medicine Protocol Committee


Storage of Human Milk
1. Freshly expressed human milk may be stored safely at
room temperature (10–298C, 50–858F). Different studiessuggest different optimal times for room temperature
storage because the studies vary greatly in the cleanliness
of milk expression technique and the room
temperature during the study. Warmer ambient temperatures
are associated with faster growing bacterial
counts in stored milk. For room temperatures ranging
from 278C to 328C (298C¼858F), 3–4 hours may be a
reasonable limit.3,12,13 For very clean expressed milk
with very little bacteria, 6–8 hours at lower room temperatures
may be reasonable.2,14–16

2. Very few studies have evaluated milk storage safety at
158C (598F), which would be equivalent to a blue-ice
pack in a small cooler. Hamosh et al.12 suggested that
human milk is safe at 158C for 24 hours, based on
minimal bacterial growth noted in the samples from
their study.

3. Several studies have demonstrated the safety of refrigerating
human milk (48C, 408F), either by evaluating the
bactericidal capacity of stored milk as a marker for milk
quality or by measuring bacterial growth in the stored
milk samples. Bactericidal capacity of stored refrigerated
human milk declines significantly by 48–72
hours.17–19 However, studies of expressed human milk
with little contamination at the time of expression
demonstrate safe, low levels of bacteria growth in milk
at 72 hours15 and even after 4–8 days of refrigeration.
1,2,20

4. Freezing expressed human milk (48C to 208C) has
been demonstrated to be safe for at least 3 months.
Vitamins A, E, and B, total protein, fat, enzymes, lactose,
zinc, immunoglobulins, lysozyme, and lactoferrin
are generally preserved when freezing human milk.21–23
A few studies have found a significant decrease in vitamin
C levels in frozen milk after 3 months.24,25 Bacterial
growth was not found to be a problem in frozen
milk for at least 6 weeks.26 Antibacterial activity of
frozen human milk is preserved for at least 3 weeks.27
The basic principles of freezing dictate that frozen foods
at 188C (08F) are indefinitely safe from bacterial contamination,
although enzymatic processes inherent in
food could persist, with possible changes in milk
quality.28 Frozen human milk should be stored in the
back of the freezer to prevent intermittent rewarming
due to freezer door opening. All containers with human
milk should be well sealed to prevent contamination.

5. After a container is filled with human milk, space
should be left at the top of the container to allow for
expansion with freezing. All stored containers of
human milk should be labeled with the date of milk
expression and the name of the child if the milk will be
used in a child-care setting. It is typical for infants in
daycare to take 60–120mL (2–4 ounces) of human milk
at one feeding. Therefore, storing human milk in 60–
120-mL increments is a convenient way to prevent
waste of defrosted=thawed human milk.

6. Try to avoid adding warm milk to already cooled or
frozen milk, in order to prevent rewarming of the already
stored milk. It is best to cool down the newly expressed
milk first before adding it to older stored milk.

7. Stored human milk may have an altered smell and taste
because of the activity of lipase, an enzyme that breaks
down fat into fatty acids. This breakdown of fat aids the
infant in the digestion of human milk, particularly for
preterm infants, and is not harmful,28,29 although some
infants may refuse to drink it. Heating milk to above
408C is not advised because this will result in loss of
enzyme activity.

Using Stored Human Milk
1. Fresh milk is better than frozen milk. Use the oldest
milk in the refrigerator or freezer first.

2. The baby may drink the milk cool, at room temperature,
or warmed. Infants may demonstrate a preference.

3. It is best to defrost human milk either in the refrigerator
overnight, by running under warm water, or setting it
in a container of warm water. Studies done on defrosting
human milk in a microwave demonstrate that
controlling the temperature in a microwave is difficult,
causing the milk to heat unevenly.30 Although microwaving
milk decreases bacteria in the milk much like
pasteurization does, microwaving also significantly
decreases the anti-infective quality of human milk,
which may reduce its overall health properties for the
infant.

4. Once frozen milk is brought to room temperature, its
ability to inhibit bacterial growth is lessened, especially
by 24 hours after thawing.27 Previously frozen human
milk that has been thawed for 24 hours should not be
left out at room temperature for more than a few hours.

5. There is little information on refreezing of thawed
human milk. Bacterial growth and loss of antibacterial
activity in thawed milk will vary depending on thetechnique of milk thawing, duration of the thaw, and
the amount of bacteria in the milk at the time of expression.
At this time no recommendations can be made
on the refreezing of thawed human milk.

6. Once a baby begins drinking expressed human milk,
some bacterial contamination occurs in the milk from
the baby’s mouth. The duration of time the milk can be
kept at room temperature once the baby has partially
fed from the cup or bottle would theoretically depend
on the initial bacterial load in the milk, how long the
milk has been thawed, and the ambient temperature.
There have been no studies done to provide recommendations
in this regard. Based on related evidence
thus far, it seems reasonable to discard the remaining
milk within 1–2 hours after the baby is finished feeding.

7. Expressed human milk does not require special handling
(such as universal precautions), as is required for
other bodily fluids such as blood. It can be stored in a
workplace refrigerator where other workers store food,
although it should be labeled with name and date.33
Mothers may prefer to store their milk in a personal
freezer pack.

8. Uncontaminated human milk naturally contains nonpathogenic
bacteria34,35 and is important in establishing the
neonatal intestinal flora. These bacteria are probiotics—
they create conditions in the intestine that are unfavorable
to the growth of pathogenic organisms.35 If a mother
has breast or nipple pain from what is considered to be
a bacterial or yeast infection, there is no evidence that
her stored expressed milk needs to be discarded. Human
milk that appears stringy, foul, or purulent should
not be fed to the baby.

Regards,

Zatul Hijanah Ramzi
Lactation Counselor/ Columnist for Mami & Baby Magazine

July 14, 2010
Marsha Walker, RN. IBCLC

Heads Up On Nestle/Gerber's New Formula Marketing

Just a quick heads up on a new and insidious marketing tactic being employed
by Nestle, owner of the Gerber brand of formula. The wonderful Blacktating
blog informed us on May 14 of a new type of formula marketing tactic
employed by Nestle/Gerber, the House Party. House Party is an internet based
mechanism to entice people to host a party for a particular product brand,
in this case Gerber formula. Prospective hosts apply on-line at the House
Party website, HouseParty.com, and if selected, the host receives free
products for themselves and product samples to distribute to their friends,
family, and neighbors that they invite to this party (reminiscent of
Tupperware parties). Essentially, Nestle/Gerber recruits salespeople who are
not hired employees but peers of the targeted market. Guests at this party
receive a Gerber insulated backpack filled with numerous coupons and samples
of Gerber products. The host receives a box of gifts for herself and samples
including infant formula to display for all participants. Hosts are
encouraged to take photos of the party and provide (glowing) comments on how
much fun they had and how people gushed over Good Start formula. Who has
breastfeeding parties?!!!


This is a clever way to put into practice what a growing body of research is
showing about how people process information when making decisions,
including health decisions for themselves and their family. Research has
shown evidence regarding the striking persuasive power of anecdotal comments
from friends and family. Even a weakly offhand positive comment about an
inferior product has proven more powerful than research-based evidence and
statistics. Mothers are putting more stock in what their friends say about
formula than they are in what we say about breastfeeding.


This may make it more important for us to consider alternative interventions
to mitigate the effect of powerful anecdotal biases. Anecdotal manipulation
of health decisions is a powerful marketing tactic for both infant formula
manufacturers and for us to consider when helping mothers make infant
feeding decisions. Some health providers ask mothers to "think like a
scientist" when presented with information on the differences between health
outcomes when using infant formula or breastmilk. In other words, the mother
is oriented to think in a different manner to make her judgement and
decision. Decision aids are also helpful (videos of mothers talking about
breastfeeding, visual aids, etc). Counterarguments to formula feeding also
include asking mothers to engage in an exercise to orient their thinking to
and write down reasons why the reliability of certain types of information
might be called into question. Perhaps we need to direct mothers' thinking
in a different manner when talking about breastfeeding, supplementation, and
the use of infant formula.


It is so frustrating to me to work with mothers and see them make inferior
choices based on what their friends tell them. These house parties represent
yet another perfect example of marketing research at its finest. It makes me
wonder if we need to really take a closer look at changing the way we
approach how we present information to mothers regarding infant feeding. The
hours we spend talking about the health benefits can be completely undone at
a house party where other mothers gush over how great formula has been to
their life.


July 11, 2010

Carol Yeh-Garner (I Love Dr. Biter)

You're Invited to Some Awesome Cooking Classes

Dining Details & Chickpeas are offering a wonderful array of cooking classes as a fundraiser for Dr. Biter. All of the proceeds will be donated to the Build Babies by the Sea Fund which is controlled by the Board of Directors. This is a great event & there is something offered for EVERYONE! Please share the info with your friends...they don't have to know Dr. Biter.

Bonus: Everyone that attends a class will receive recipes from ALL of the classes!

Culinary Class Schedule for July 29th at Sur La Table in the Carlsbad Forum in La Costa/Carlsbad, CA.

10:30-12:00
Baby Food Making and Baby Nutrition
Learn the tips and techniques from the pros at CHICKPEAS how to create your own baby food at home. Set your baby up for a life of health and flavor by incorporating herbs, spices, and flavor combinations at the right time in their development. Learn about allergies, timing, techniques, and recipes. Take home 2 sample baby food containers, filled with the combination of your choice.
Info:
Demo and Discussion
Maximum Number of Guests: 32
Suggested minimum donation: $50 per person
Raffle Prizes available
Class goal: minimum $1600


12:30-1:30
Hands on Toddler Snack Making and Nutrition (Suggested Age, 2-4)
Learn how to involve your toddler in healthy, fresh, snack making. Take home information and suggestions on toddler nutrition, getting more veggies in your toddlers diet, increasing immune system strength, and more.

Info:
Hands-On, Children's Class
Maximum Number of Guests: 14 Toddler/Parent Pairs
Suggested Minimum Donation: $65 per parent/toddler pair
Raffle Prizes available
Class goal: minimum $900


2:00-4:00pm
Prenatal Nutrition & Culinary Preparation for Birth Recovery
Your body is a temple. Take the best care of it when you are pregnant and breast feeding to give your little on their best chance at a healthy start. Learn in this class how to incorporate power foods and healthy fats into your diet, and the basics of organics, local, seasonal foods. We will prepare several dishes that you can make the month of your due date to freeze for your homecoming week. There is nothing like organic, healthy, home made food to help you in your recovery from birth.
Info:
Demo and Discussion
Food, Tasting, and Recipes included
Maximum Number of Guests: 32
Suggested Minimum Donation: $75 per person
Raffle Prizes available
Class goal: minimum $2500


July 4th, 2010

Some Breastfeeding Basics

Breastfeeding Your Baby. Mothers who breastfeed have a special and unique relationship with their babies, and many say how much pleasure being able to nourish and comfort their offspring brings. Breast milk is the natural food for babies. Breastfeeding your baby is also convenient and cheap and protects a baby against many illnesses. It isn’t without problems, but virtually all of these can be prevented or overcome. The problem most often experienced with breastfeeding is insufficient milk, which is a shame because it is a preventable problem.

Breastfeeding baby works on a demand and supply basis – the more time the baby spends at the breast, the more milk is made. One exception to this is if the baby isn’t sucking efficiently. If you don’t think your baby is sucking well or have any other feeding problem, ask your midwife, health visitor or a breastfeeding counsellor for advice. Good sources of mother-to-mother help for any breastfeeding problem is the one-on-one, personal, in the privacy of your own home of Best Fed Babies at VirtualBreastfeedingHelp.com or also a La Leche League Leader in your area.

If your breasts feel tender, lumpy or swollen, take some milk off as soon as you can by putting your baby to the breast or by hand-expressing. Hold your baby at the breast in different positions to drain the breast more evenly. The longer you leave overfull breasts, the more likely you are to get a blocked milk duct. This can make you feel flu-like and irritable and can lead to a breast infection if you don’t know what to do about it or don’t ask for help.

Sore nipples are common at first, but they get better in time, especially if you change your breastfeeding technique.

Put your baby to the breast as often as he wants (or as often as you do, if your breasts are full), day and night, and don’t be afraid to wake a sleepy baby if he isn’t feeding enough to stimulate your breasts to make milk. Some babies quickly fall into a routine of their own while others don’t for a long time, but the most common mistake breastfeeding mothers make is to think they’re giving their babies too many feeds. Once the average woman begins to ration her baby’s time at the breast, she’s in danger of her milk running out. Women would probably get much more satisfaction from breastfeeding – and their babies would benefit more – it they didn’t start weaning their babies from the breast when they started introducing them to solids (Best Fed Babies recommends starting solids no earlier than 6 months) .  The point is that at the very time when breastfeeding is becoming second nature and when mother and baby are working really well as a team, society encourages the mother to think she has to stop!


 
June 26, 2010
 
Preparing for a Wedding vs. Preparing to Give Birth - How Much Time Do You Invest?
 
 Kristen (@OmahaBabyLady)
 
 
Kristen, who is a Bradley childbirth educator and doula, was prompted to Tweet and blog about this after a potential client reacted to the news that the birth classes Kristen offered would be 12 weeks long. “Twelve weeks!,” she exclaimed. “You expect me to spend 12 weeks on something so simple as giving birth?” Kristen was at a loss for words and reflected on this for a few days before she made the analogy between preparing for a wedding and preparing for a birth. She said on her blog Baby’s Best Beginning that she planned for her wedding for more than 15 months, including visiting wedding message boards, interviewing people and spending “countless hours agonizing” over all of the details and says most of the people she knows did/do the same. “Of course at the end of the day all that really matters is that they are able to marry their partner but very few people say ‘well, the minister/priest/rabbi etc. is the expert on marriage I will just do whatever they say in regards to my wedding,’ yet when it comes to birth so many couples simply defer to whatever their doctor tells them is best even when there is no medical evidence supporting those choices.”
 
So is 12 weeks too long to spend preparing to give birth? Kristen obviously doesn’t believe so. She feels, “When it comes to bringing your child into the world this is truly not a case of less is more.”
 
Not everyone agrees though. @SybilRyan argues that the two events (wedding and birth) are “not even remotely similar” and shouldn’t be compared. Genevieve is taking Bradley classes now and thinks 12 weeks is too long, but eight weeks would be perfect. “I love my teacher, the other parents, etc., but 12 weeks is a really long commitment when you have so much else to do to prepare for your baby.” @Reecemg who blogs at Metagestation said she took an eight-week class and it was the perfect length. Others, such as Heather who blogs at Christian Stay At Home Moms thinks an intensive four to six hour one-day class would be good, as “its difficult to find time to go to a class 1x per week for 12 weeks.”
 
Mary, who blogs at One Perfect Mess, said on Twitter, “The length [of the class] probably depends on the quality. For us four meetings was plenty.”
 
Merry With Children also commented on Twitter and said, “I know there are things to learn but so much of it [birth] is going to go how its going to go. Too much info is just scary.”
 
Rebecca thinks people put more time preparing for their wedding than childbirth for exactly that reason — fear. She commented on Twitter, a “wedding is fun, childbirth is scary. ‘Experts’ will take care of everything when you show up at hospital.”
 
Andi who blogs at Confessions of a Judgmental Hippy agrees with Kristen and thinks, “if a woman can commit to 12 prenatal appointments (average) then 12 weeks (sessions) of [childbirth education] should be easy.”
 
Whitney blogs at The (Un)balancing Act of Motherhood took Bradley classes and thinks the length of time was “perfect,” although admits she gave birth before attending the last two classes. She added, “I can’t imagine learning about what happens in birth, what to expect, what to do, etc. in one class or even four classes. But like I said, that’s just me. Others would be fine with one or four classes.”
 
What do you think? Can the two events - a wedding and a birth - be compared? What is the “right” amount of time to prepare for giving birth?
 
I planned for more than a year for my wedding, and although I didn’t attend a 12-week Bradley Method session, I feel like I put a good deal of preparation into childbirth. I took Hypnobirthing classes before my first child was born, which were six two-hour classes if I remember correctly. I also read a lot and practiced the Hypnobirthing techniques.
 
I agree to some degree with Merry With Children in that no matter how much one prepares, birth is “going to go how its going to go.” But I also think the more you know and understand about birth, the better informed you will be to make choices along the way. Knowledge is power.
 
Photo credits:
Bride - http://www.flickr.com/photos/diannadesign/486944603/
Maternity - http://www.flickr.com/photos/mcgraths/3656184801/in/photostream/
 

 
June 22, 2010
 
Melissa of "Confessions of a Dr. Mom"
 
Dr. Mom: "I Worry About Vaccines Too"
 
It’s hard not to worry these days. As parents we are inundated with information both for and against vaccines. As a pediatrician and mother, I am not immune to these fears. It’s the internal doctor vs. mommy conflict.
 
I can rationalize all I want and yet, when it comes to your own children you just want to be sure. Let me just say upfront, that yes, overall, I believe in vaccines. However, they are not without some risks, they are not perfect, but they are the best we have thus far in protecting our society from some very serious diseases.
 
Up until I had my own child, I actually never even gave them a second thought. Vaccines, yes a part of life. With my first child, my son, I did it all by the book. Followed the AAP guidelines because that was what I was trained to do.
 
His two month visit and vaccines went without a hitch…okay, I thought, not too bad. At 4 months, not so great. High fever, cranky like you wouldn’t believe and really just not my same happy little boy for at least a week.
 
To an objective party, like his pediatrician, perfectly acceptable side effects. Unfortunate, yes, but acceptable. We endured repeat performances for his 6 and 12 month round of vaccines and they only seemed to increase with intensity.
 
I worried that I had damaged my son! Each and every time, I thought, oh no…I’ve ruined my baby! Not completely rational I know but when you are living in that moment, you doubt yourself and wonder if you did the right thing.
 
He, of course, rebounded and today is a happy, bright, and energetic 5 year old. So no, I didn’t ruin my baby. But, it did make me wonder if there was a another way.
 
Enter child number two, my daughter. Time comes for her first set of vaccines and surprisingly I had some reservations. I thought I was pretty much over my experience with my son but I wasn’t.
 
Granted, there was no way of knowing what, if any, her reactions would be but something was nudging me do things a little different this time around. So I did. I decided to spread out her vaccines.
 
This took some planning and a little research to make sure she was getting the most important ones on time. In doing so, she ended up only receiving about two vaccines with each visit. This meant more frequent visits, but now that all is said and done, it was worth it.
 
She pretty much sailed through her vaccinations. I can’t say it is all because we spread them out, maybe she wasn’t going to have any reactions in the first place. However, I felt better and so did she. She is a fully vaccinated child, I just felt we did it in a much kinder way.
 
Not that I didn’t encounter some opposition. Opposition in the form of her pediatrician, who, when I explained what I wanted to do said this “Well, you’re lucky that most parents decide to vaccinate their children so you really don’t have to worry about it”.
 
Okay, I had to stop myself mid eye-roll because it was then that I realized I had said this very same thing to a parent who didn’t want to vaccinate their child (this was obviously my pre-mommy pediatrician talking). Talk about getting a taste of your own medicine!
 
So I softened, understanding where she was coming from. However, she had kind of missed my point. I wanted to vaccinate my child, just not all at once. Once she realized this, she softened too and we came to an understanding.
 
I like to think we both learned something that day. Being a mother changes you. It challenges you to rethink what you’ve already learned. It makes you a more empathetic person.
 
Having been on both sides of this issue, I can honestly understand where a parent is coming from. Ultimately, we all want to do what is best for our children. All we can do is be as informed as possible and make our best educated decision. That, combined with listening to your Mom intuition should always lead you in the right direction.
 
Melissa is a pediatrician turned stay at home mom who is learning that raising children doesn’t always play out like in the text books. She says, “I consider this phase in my life my on the job training in more ways than one and decided to start blogging about it.” She and her husband have two wonderful children, live in Northern California, and are enjoying this journey through parenthood and all the unexpected surprises that come along with it.
 
 
 
June 16, 2010
 
Mother to Mother Forum!
 
Check out this GREAT site from LLL here: http://forums.llli.org/
 
 
 
June 3, 2010
 
 
 
 
March 1, 2010
 
National Nutrition Month
 
January 17, 2010
 
HAITI NEEDS BREASTFEEDING MOMS
 
In light of the recent earthquake in Haiti, I am re-posting (with editing) something I wrote for World Breastfeeding Awareness Week 2009. This is a small effort to  educate people about the importance of breastfeeding the babies in Haiti.  Our hearts and prayers are with all the mothers in Haiti who are breastfeeding a stranger’s baby to save the baby's life.
 
Please choose to donate to an organization involved in the relief efforts in Haiti that supports breastfeeding in emergencies. As a starting place to determine which agency in your home country to support, the Emergency Nutrition Network (ENN) has a list of key resources and policies on infant and young child feeding in emergencies. On that page you can find links to a list of agencies that have been involved in policy guidance and implementation on infant feeding. The ENN also has a list of its supporters around the world.
 
A Few Important Things To Know
  • Breastfeeding plays a vital role in emergencies worldwide.
  • Active protection and support of breastfeeding is needed before and during emergencies.
  • Mothers, breastfeeding advocates, communities, health professionals, governments, aid agencies, donors, and the media need to be informed on how they can actively support breastfeeding before and during an emergency.
  • Collaboration between those with breastfeeding skills and those involved in emergency response is imperative.
  • Children are the most vulnerable in emergencies – child mortality can soar from 2 to 70 times higher than average due to diarrhoea, respiratory illness and malnutrition.
  • Breastfeeding is a life saving intervention and protection is greatest for the youngest infants. Even in non-emergency settings, non-breastfed babies under 2 months of age are six times more likely to die.
  • Emergencies can happen anywhere in the world. Emergencies destroy what is ‘normal,’ leaving caregivers struggling to cope and infants vulnerable to disease and death.
  • During emergencies, mothers need active support to continue or re-establish breastfeeding.
  • Emergency preparedness is vital. Supporting breastfeeding in non-emergency settings will strengthen mothers’ capacity to cope in an emergency.
When we think of emergencies we think of earthquakes, hurricanes, tsunamis, war, and famine. The kinds of events that bring Red Cross volunteers to the frontlines, handing out food, water and formula and directing stranded individuals to shelter, providing the basic necessities for survival.  During emergencies, chaos is everywhere. There’s often no electricity, running water,or sanitation facilities, and while bottled water is good for drinking, more water is required for washing and sanitizing. Infants who must rely on formula are put at the highest risk when dirty bottles risk contamination and disease. No matter where one lives, mothers need to chose to breastfeed in order to ensure their babies health, safety and survival.
For young children, another component to survival is staying close to a parent. Breastfeeding is the best way to ensure a child is nourished, as well as feels safe, loved and protected in the arms of its mother. Why do you think even grown-ups cry for their mommy in the most frightening moments? We all need to be touched and cared for by someone who cares. Children trust their parents to provide that reassurance. Sometimes, another woman who is lactating can step in and nurse a lost or orphaned child. A police officer in Jiangyou, China breastfed nine babies after the May 12th, 2008 Sichuan earthquake which killed more than 69,000 people. She was proclaimed a hero. In the weeks ahead we will identify more HERO MOTHERS in Haiti. 
Breast milk can also be used to wash with and treat scrapes and other small wounds. When medical aids are scarce (or hospitals collapse) breast milk can be a precious commodity. Mothers with abundant supplies of breast milk can count their lucky stars in the time of crisis.
Moms who have weaned or only partially breastfeed can still nourish their babies by starting the process of re-lactation, which simply means breastfeeding as much as possible to stimulate the milk supply again.
Hopefully you will never find yourself in the middle of an emergency. However, if you do and you are still making milk, you are in a very good position to protect your children from life threatening illness, disease, and hunger. You are also in the position to be able to help other families and babies who do not have access to a food supply. While nursing another woman’s child (cross-nursing) might not be everyone’s cup of tea, I hope every woman who reads this might consider doing it if a crisis ever occurs where she lives.
 
 
 
January 2010
 
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!
 
Make your NEW YEARS' RESOLUTION to share the following 5 TIPS with new nursing mothers.  These tips will help support and educate them so they may continue to give their children one of life's greatest gifts. 
 
1.  More Than Likely, You're Making Plenty Of Milk!
2.  Successful Nursing Takes Practice
3.  One Bottle Won't Hurt, Will It?
4.  If You're Having Trouble, Help IS Available!
5.  Give Yourself A Break
 
Breastfeeding is, by far, the most beautiful bond shared between mother and child. Not only is breastmilk the perfect food, but the mother-child connection created while nursing is one that most breastfeeding moms agree to be unparalled.Sadly, many mothers do not create this bond with their children. Some women are unsure how to breastfeed, some are uneducated about the benefits of breastfeeding, and others are unsupported. Some women may feel intimidated or afraid. Our society is not one that has completely normalized breastfeeding as it should be. In a world where formula companies run endless ads promoting their concoctions and nursing mothers are sometimes ostracized by airlines, corporations, and even celebrities, women face mixed messages about the importance and ease of breastfeeding. If more women were properly educated and prepared for this wonderful bond, they might enjoy more success. The following are five tips for new nursing mothers to help support and educate them so that they may continue to give their children one of life's greatest gifts.
 
1.  More Than Likely, You're Making Plenty Of Milk!
One of the biggest reasons new mothers turn to formula is the belief that they are not making enough milk. Some parenting books suggest putting babies on a schedule of four-hour feedings. While this might work for formula fed babies, breastmilk digests faster, leaving the breastfed baby wanting to nurse more frequently. New mothers should be aware that their nursing babies do best when fed on demand - and they demand a lot! Besides filling baby's tummy, mothers need to realize that nursing is a source of great comfort for the new baby. Suckling and being close to mom is often as good as the milk they receive, so babies sometimes want to be in that spot much of the time.
2.  Successful Nursing Takes Practice
When new mothers think of nursing they usually think of it as a beautiful, easy relationship between mother and baby right from the start. When they don't know is that it doesn't always get started as easy as planned.  Sometimes a mother and baby struggle as they are first learning to nurse.  New moms need to remember that while they are learning to breastfeed, so is baby. New mothers can be encouraged to place their babies on top of their chests and watch as babies naturally gravitate and latch on to a breast.   Many babies struggle and cry and refuse to latch in the beginning - they are as new to the idea that they must now suckle for food as is the mother that she must provide this nourishment. This struggle occurs during the first few days and is normal behavior, but it can be frustrating. New moms should be supported and told that these feelings of frustration are normal and they will pass. Practicing breastfeeding creates a successful breastfeeding relationship.
3.  One Bottle Won't Hurt, Will It?
Many well-meaning relatives want to help. One way that family members think to help the new mom is by offering to give the baby a bottle and allow mom a chance to rest, relax, and even sleep! While the new mother may be tempted to take this kind offer, she should be aware that introducing a bottle too early to a new baby still learning to breastfeed can lead to problems. A bottle nipple is easier and different for baby than suckling at the breast.  In addition, a mother is unable to build up a full milk supply when bottles are given before 6-8 weeks. 
4.  If You're Having Trouble, Help IS Available!
New mothers can feel very alone when learning to nurse their babies. No one else can really help with feedings and if mom doesn't have other women in her life who were successful nursers it can seem that everyone is pushing a bottle toward the baby. There IS help available.  Supportive and knowledgeable Virtual Breastfeeding HelpLactation Consultants are available at all times in the comfort of mothers' own homes via SKYPE. Mothers should never be too embarrassed or wait too long to seek help and make an appointment with one of our Lactation Professionals.  No problem is too big to handle easily and quickly.  Watch the short DEMO to see how our consultations work.
5.  Give Yourself A Break
Many new mothers are too hard on themselves after giving birth. Birth is a huge ordeal and new mother need to rest and spend quiet time with their babies. Many mothers see laundry mounting, dishes piling in the sink, and older children needing to be cared for and feel a sense of despair - how can they get everything done? Mothers need to be easier on themselves and allow others to care for the household while mom cuddles in bed with her new baby! This is where those relative wanting to help can lend a hand. Instead of giving the baby a bottle, fathers and partners, mothers and in-laws can be more helpful by helping keep the house in order and caring for other children while the new mom and baby spend time practicing and establishing their breastfeeding relationship.  The mother who allows herself this time will be rewarded with a quickly established bond between baby and herself as well as time to heal and recuperate. In the end, the mother who sets aside time in the beginning to practice breastfeeding may find that she is actually back on her feet and in the swing of things sooner than the mother who tries to accomplish too much at once. Laundry can wait, but a breastfeeding relationship won't.
 
Hopefully these five tips will help the new mother feel confident in her choice and educated in where to find support and help. If she learns to take cues from baby, ask for help, and allow herself time to heal and practice her new found art, the new nursing mother will likely be rewarded with a strong, beautiful, breastfeeding relationship with her child, and the bond that is created will be one of her most cherished.
 
 
October 3, 2009
 
Breastfeeding Challenge Event Raffle WINNER
 
I am happy to announce that smiling Sarah, proud mother of beautiful baby, Ania, is the WINNER of the Virtual Breastfeeding Help '45 Minute Consultation' ($100 value). 
Congratulations, Sarah and Ania!  
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
SFV's 2009 Breastfeeding Challenge - Saturday October 3
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
We all had a wonderful time yesterday at the San Fernando Valley's 2009 Breastfeeding Challenge. The Breastfeeding Challenge is a GLOBAL event to create awareness about the importance of breastfeeding.  This year's Challenge was on Saturday, October 3, 2009.  The goal was to get as many mothers as possible from all over the world to breastfeed their babies and have an enjoyable morning! The event was not only fun but quite the success.  Over 100 breastfeeding families and friends showed up for the SFV Breastfeeding Challenge to show their support.  46 babies were latched-on simultaneously to 44 moms during the official Breastfeeding Latch-On Challenge at 11:00am!
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
September 4, 2009
AAP Statement on Passing of Senator Edward M. Kennedy
 
 
David T. Tayloe Jr., MD, FAAP, president, American Academy of Pediatrics
“On behalf of our 60,000 primary care pediatricians, pediatric medical subspecialists and pediatric surgical specialists, the American Academy of Pediatrics joins with America in mourning the passing of Senator Edward M. Kennedy.
“Senator Kennedy was a true champion of children and their well-being throughout his career in the Senate. He knew first-hand what it was like to have a sick child, and that understanding and compassion was reflected in his decades of work on behalf of our nation’s youngest citizens.
“The work of Senator Kennedy on behalf of children cannot be overstated. His legacy includes working across party lines to provide millions of children access to crucial health care and immunizations, creating the largest funded program for children living with HIV/AIDS, and allowing for higher education grants and loans.
“As we move forward, it is the Academy’s hope that we remember what Senator Kennedy already knew: that the life success of every child must be this nation’s highest priority. Senator Kennedy worked his entire life towards the goal of passing comprehensive health care reform—for our children and for all Americans. Let us now come together and honor him by finishing what he started—let us pass health reform that includes what is best for children this year.”
Let's push for Obama's Health Care Plan to be called "Kennedy Care"!!
 
 
 
September 2009
September is Mommy & Baby Bonding Month
Bonding is the intense attachment that develops between a mother and her baby. It makes her want to shower her baby with love and affection and to protect and nourish her little one. Bonding makes mothers attentive to her baby's wide range of needs.
Scientists are still learning a lot about bonding. They know that the strong ties between parents and their child provide the baby's first model for intimate relationships and foster a sense of security and positive self-esteem. And parents' responsiveness to an infant's signals can affect the child's social and cognitive development.
 
Why Is Bonding Important?
Bonding is essential for a baby. Studies of newborn monkeys who were given mannequin mothers at birth showed that, even when the mannequins were made of soft material and provided formula to the baby monkeys, the babies were better socialized when they had live mothers to interact with. The baby monkeys with mannequin mothers were more likely to suffer from despair, as well as failure to thrive. Scientists suspect that lack of bonding in human babies can cause similar problems.
 
Bonding is a process, not something that takes place within minutes and not something that has to be limited to happening within a certain time period after birth. For many parents, bonding is a byproduct of everyday caregiving. You may not even know it's happening until you observe your baby's first smile and suddenly realize that you're filled with love and joy.
 
The Ways Babies Bond
When you're a new parent, it often takes a while to understand your newborn's true capabilities and all the ways you can interact:
  • Touch becomes an early language as babies respond to skin-to-skin contact. It's soothing for both you and your baby while promoting your baby's healthy growth and development.
  • Eye-to-eye contact provides meaningful communication at close range.
  • Babies can follow moving objects with their eyes.
  • Your baby tries — early on — to imitate your facial expressions and gestures.
  • Babies prefer human voices and enjoy vocalizing in their first efforts at communication. Babies often enjoy just listening to your conversations, as well as your descriptions of their activities and environments.
 
 
Making an Attachment
Bonding with your baby is probably one of the most pleasurable aspects of infant care. Begin with 'Laid-Back Breastfeeding'! 
Bonding usually occurs naturally almost immediately for breastfeeding mothers. Infants respond to the smell and touch of their mothers, as well as the responsiveness of the parents to their needs.
Adoptive and intended parents may be concerned about bonding with their baby. Although it might happen sooner for some than others, adopted and intended babies and their parents have the opportunity to bond just as well as biological parents and their children.
ENJOY this time with your baby - these are precious moments never to be experienced again!
 
 
August 3, 2009
August is Breastfeeding Awareness Month
"Breastfeeding - A Vital Emergency Response"
 
July 18, 2009 - C-Sections on the Rise - Part 2 (Problems for Baby with Mother-Infant Separation for ANY Reason)
In my previous blog Part 1, I talked about the serious rise in the number of c-sections and I alluded to the problems associated with c-sections.  The main problem is one many have never recognized as a problem - separation of mother and baby after birth.  What's the big deal separating mother and baby?  Mothers need their rest....Babies need to be monitored......Well, let me tell you the practices lead by this thinking are absolutely unsafe for both mother and baby.  I will discuss the problems that arise for babies in this Part 2 blog.  In the uterine HABITAT, oxygenation is provided through the placenta and the cord, as well as warmth, nutrition and protection. These are the four basic biological needs. Parturition (birth) represents a "habitat transition". In the new habitat, the basic needs remain the same. Research over the last ten years concludes the newborn, in the skin-to-skin habitat (baby between mother's breast skin-to-skin), not the mother or the health care providers, provides these basic needs. Oxygenation has been shown to improve with skin-to-skin contact. Breathing becomes regular and stable, and is coordinated with heart rate. Warmth is controlled within a very narrow range by mother's core temperature.  When the infant is cold the mother's core temperature can rise 2-3 degrees and fall 1-2 degrees when baby is hot. Nutrition is improved, both with respect to the baby's ability to breastfeed, and with respect to the newborn’s utilization of the feed. The volume of mother’s milk and the frequency of feeds is greatly increased. Even without the increased milk, with the vagal stimulation the infant receives, the gut is better able to use the milk provided, and the baby does not lose weight. Protection of the baby by the mother is critical and this behavior is dependent on skin-to-skin contact.  The stimulations the newborn gives the mother during skin-to-skin contact elicit caregiving and protective behaviors from the mother. The baby’s legs kicking on the mother’s abdomen cause the mother’s uterus to contract strongly, preventing postpartum bleeding. The primary violation, the worst case scenario, to any newborn is separation from its mother. “Protest-despair” behavior is a stress reaction, and the hormones related to this have been extensively studied. At high levels, these hormones are neurotoxic to the brain, particularly areas of the hindbrain, and any area which may be already a little hypoxic. Skin-to-skin contact has been shown to markedly reduce these levels. Numerous study findings support the presence of a period after birth (the early “sensitive period”) during which close contact between mother and infant may induce long-term positive effect on mother-infant interaction. Therefore, hospital practice that includes any separation or prevention of immediate skin-to-skin contact, including swaddling of the infant has been found to decrease the mother's responsiveness to the infant, her ability for positive affective involvement with her infant, and the mutuality and reciprocity in the dyad.  I will discuss the problems that arise for mothers in my next Part 3 blog later this week.
 
July 13, 2009 - C-Sections on the Rise- Part 1
C-sections are on the rise and are actually out of control in some locations.  I know of several hospitals where the c-section rates are over 75% and I have been told to keep this a secret!  Humm, I wonder why?? No wonder mothers are having more and more difficulty breastfeeding their babies from the first moment of life.  More and more babies' first moments of life are spent in a hospital operating room. This is NOT the environment where babies find a welcoming and calm setting.  Babies are not immediately placed on mothers' chests skin-to-skin to start the wonderful bonding process. Babies are routinely separated from their mothers and whisked away to who knows where....This early separation has such negative effects on both the mother and the baby that one day we will see laws forbidding this routine hospital practice.  I will write more about the detrimental effects to mother, baby and the breastfeeding experience later in Part 2.  In the mean time please check out the article published today about several hospitals in the Brockton area of Massachusetts.
 
July 4, 2009 - Happy 4th of July!!!
Three reasons to celebrate today:
1.  Our freedom
2.  My hubby's birthday - Happy Birthday, Bill
We decided to really go 'all out' this year to celebrate Bill's birthday.  We're having a huge fireworks show on top of our mountain and we're having the Philharmonic perform - should be a blast tonight!
 
 
 
We might even get lucky and see the "Annual Burning of Mt Rubidoux" - AWESOME!
 
 
3.  Time with your family
Enjoy the time together - this is the time when memories are made.  I have fond memories of the 4ths of July while growing up - first we would all pile in the station wagon (bring along a bunch of the neighbor girls) and spend the day at the beach.  We'd come home at dusk just in time to have a block picnic and fireworks show.  I love the sparklers.  Check out Bill's cake above - the candles were actually sparklers!  So much fun...
July 1, 2009 - The Marketing of Infant Formula Escalates  
Why are formula companies stepping up their advertising campaigns?  Could it be that breastfeeding is on the rise and their revenues are decreasing?  Not only are formula companies advertising in parenting magazines they are now placing ads in mainstream magazines and on mainstream websites.  The current main offender is Mead Johnson.  They are running a new ad "Can formula support the way your baby develops?" on Celebrity-Babies.com.  This is the leading website for the most up-to-date info on celebrities and their babies.  Celebrity-Babies.com receives 1 million page views per day with a large number of these viewers expectant mothers. This ad rotates with other ads so it is not always on each page all the time, but periodically appears on the various pages of the website. Celebrity-babies.com is owned by PEOPLE magazine, which has also started running full-page formula ads, especially in high-selling issues featuring the latest celebrity babies. With such a large circulation PEOPLE's decision to run formula ads is extremely damaging to breastfeeding. Formula company ads have been working to dupe parents into thinking that formula is equivalent to human milk,  their strategy is working. So many people now believe they are 2 very similar products.  These ads have now moved to mainstream media outlets and with that formula feeding is normalized - you see famous people and Hollywood stars right next to the formula ads.  Most people will see this as the famous people use this product - even though it doesn't actually say that, it is the unsaid messages that are so powerful.  And, who loses - our mothers and our babies.  Any, who wins - the pharmecutical companies who own the formula companies - BIG BUSINESS. 
June 27, 2009 - Human Milk for Human Babies - MUST READS
Wow, I am so glad I found these 2 articles in Oprah's O Magazine.  They are both great....
 
 
I am outraged over the insurance companies not covering this vital and critical "medicine". Does this have something to do with the drug companies not making any $$? Hummm....I wonder.  The baby's doctors' responses: "One doctor pointed out that for ill or preterm infants, 'human milk is not just nutrition; it is a vital medicine' (preterm infants fed human milk have a lower risk for sepsis and necrotizing enterocolitis, and spend fewer days in the hospital). Another doctor was more blunt: 'After practicing for 32 years, I am still not able to understand the thought processes insurance companies use. … [T]he decision not to cover the cost of donor breast milk for this family [is] one of the most illogical I have ever encountered.'" Good for them!! 
Baby Gabriel in this article received breast milk from Lynn Page, the mother in the next article!
 
 
Lynn Page and her husband packed 7,260 ounces of frozen breastmilk into freezers and placed the freezers in a trailer they hitched to their Ford Focus.  The Page's drove over 2 hours to deliver the single largest donation of human milk ever - over 56 gallons!  Some of Lynn's milk helped save baby Gabriel in the above story.
June21, 2009 - Happy Father's Day!!!
Dad's Important Role in Supporting Breastfeeding  
Dads play a very important role in a mother's decision to breast-feed.  We all are convinced that fathers can influence a mother’s decision to breastfeed. So I challenge all of you to get as many fathers involved in prenatal education as possible. An encouraging father makes a new mother feel that she has the support she needs to successfully breastfeed. Some fathers are uncomfortable with breastfeeding due to the changes to their partners’ bodies or because it takes more of their partners’ time. They feel like they are spectators or outsiders when it comes to caring for their babies. By encouraging couples to work together and by giving fathers specific roles in baby care, both parents can care for their infant, each in their own special way. 
 
These are some of the ways fathers can be encouraged to do that will help with breast-feeding and make him feel very much a part of the new family:
- Share their own ideas and concerns about feeding choices
- Show support by going to classes to learn more and to find ways to help out
- Learn ways to help make mom and baby more comfortable for nursing (a huge help to mom in those first weeks when everything seems difficult)
- Provide all the feeding “extras” such as burping, cooing, caressing, calming, cuddling, diapering and rocking to sleep
- When baby is about six-weeks old and breastfeeding is going well, fathers may choose to offer a feeding of expressed breastmilk to their babies
- Be positive about the breastfeeding experience
 
Ways fathers can bond with their babies:
- Babies respond to fathers if fathers respond to their babies.
- Fathers can talk to, make funny faces and noises at, hold, touch and play with  baby.
- Daddy’s bare chest provides skin-to-skin contact with baby. 
- Fathers can give baby a body massage.
- Fathers enjoy singing and dancing with their babies.
- Babies enjoy stroller rides or rides in the car with daddies.
- Fathers can carry their babies in a sling or backpack.  Babies will snuggle safe and sound close to daddy. This helps baby recognize father's smell, walk and body rhythms.
- The more time baby spends with father in quiet times, the more likely he or she will respond to dad  during “fussy” times.
- Fathers are great with other baby needs too — like bathing, diapering and dressing.
 
Most of all encourage fathers to enjoy and spend time with their babies.
 
June 15, 2009
My son, Nate, the one who gave me the wonderful name "MOTHER", turned 21 today. Where did the time go?  The celebration of his milestone is a double edged sword - On one side, I can't believe my job is over, I will miss it so very much.  And, on the other side,  I am so very proud that I have been instrumental in raising the smart, ambitious, kind and talented young man, Nate! Happy Birthday, Natey Boy!!  
Nate, then            
                     and
 
                          Nate, now
                
                                                       Nate and Kohl
                                                                                                                               
June 8, 2009
"Baby" Kohl graduated from High School today.  Wow, I cannot believe it.  My "baby" is not a "baby" any longer. Where did the time go?  I am so proud of Kohl...He not only graduated with high honors he also graduates with lots of wonderful friends.  He will be entering college in the STEM Program (Science, Technology, Engineering and Math) this Fall. Congratulations, Kohl!
 
Baby Kohl, then            
                        and
 
                       Kohl, now 
                
June 6, 2009
1.  Baby Wearing
I know my Brain Wiring post got lots of people quite concerned.   Everyone seems to agree that a mother and baby dyad are a single psychobiological organism.  However, the idea of a mother and baby staying together 24/7 for the first 2 months is a hard concept for a mother to wrap her mind around. Remember, she just went out and bought a nursery full of beautiful furniture and accessories including a ‘luv-n-hug power plus plug-in swing’, a ‘soft-embrace comfort bouncer’, a ‘baby Einstein stationary entertainer’ and a 'especially for baby breathe easy sleep positioner' to name just a few. It’s time to add on to the house! 
I do understand, we all did this with our first baby, myself included.  Then, we found out what we really had was a beautifully furnished playroom – that’s OK.  Only the beautiful playroom was filled with a lot of “stuff”.  What we later found out is all we really needed was a sling or other wrap to wear our baby. – now that saved us a ton of money and space.  A perfect “sell” for mothers-to-be during a recession.  Please check out the Baby Wearer link on the right panel.  AND, don’t forget about our “ring slings” we have for sale at our WIC sites and our Lactation Clinics for ONLY $35.00 – they are beautiful.
 
2.  Hard Things About Parenting 
What are some of the really hard things about parenting?
  • Your baby seems to need you all the time. It can be tricky to get much else done, other than care for your baby.
  • You want your baby to be as happy and content as she can be.
  • Sometimes this seems really hard - tiring and frustrating.
  • It can be difficult to have much of a life, while so much of your time is taken up with your baby.
3.  The Perfect Solution for Active Moms
Babywearing =Keeping Baby Happy + Getting On With Your Life
It's also great for your baby:
  • Babies cry less. Research has shown that babies who are carried cry (on average) 43% less overall and 54% less during the evening hours. In cultures where babies are carried almost continuously, babies cry significantly less than those in non-carrying cultures.
  • Good for baby's mental development. Babies spend more time in a "quiet, alert state" when carried - the ideal state for learning. Their senses are stimulated while being carried (yet there is a place to retreat, too). When carried, your baby sees the world from where you do, instead of the ceiling above his crib or people's knees from a stroller. And the extra stimulation benefits brain development.
  • Good for baby's emotional development. Babies are quickly able to develop a sense of security and trust when they are carried. They are more likely to be securely attached to their mother and often become independent at an earlier age.
  • Good for baby's physical development. By being so close to your body's rhythms, your newborn "gets in rhythm" much more quickly. Your heartbeat, breathing, voice and warmth are all familiar. Research has shown how this helps newborns (especially premature babies) to adapt to life outside the womb.
 
While wearing your baby you can:
  • Cook dinner during the "arsenic hour" and soothe your baby at the same time
  • Do the gardening, chores, socialize, even dance, while providing a stimulating learning environment for your baby
  • Breastfeed hands-free while on the phone or shopping
  • Keep your baby close and happy while playing with your toddler
  • Get some exercise (walking) while your baby sleeps
  • Avoid lugging around an awkward, heavy carseat, or battle getting a stroller into your car, onto a bus or up stairs.
Imagine that......
Please check out the Baby Wearer.
 
June 3, 2009
 
I attended a conference "Perinatal Neuroscience" featuring the internationally-known speaker Dr. Nils Bergman of Cape Town, South Africa.  Armed with this critical information I am now on a mission to educate ALL parents-to-be on how their babies brain will develop and what they can do to guarantee their baby is really smart.  WE have known attachment parenting is the best for families, we did not know how critical attachment parenting is for a baby's developing brain.  Here are the basic principles of brain development:
  • During the first 10-14 weeks fetal brain development is determined by genes (DNA)  NATURE
  • Thereafter, brain growth is an active process determined by experiences in the environment. NURTURE
  • There are critical windows of opportunity in early life when a child's brain is primed to receive sensory input in order to develop advanced neural systems.  The first 3 years of brain development is the most critical.  The limbic system and the midbrain are fixed at the age of three.
  • The sensory input of a baby's experiences stimulates the creation of neural pathways, the firing and wiring of the brain.  These neural pathways can be good or bad, depending on the type of sensations and experiences.  "Cells that fire together, wire together." On the other hand, without the stimulation the critical neural pathways are not created.  "Use it or lose it."
  • The wiring of the brain's pathways is best supported when it receives quality sensory input through several pathways at once.  Sensory input includes touch, balance, smell, hearing and vision and each have a specific effect on the infant.
  • ALL of the sensory input is achieve simultaneously during breastfeeding.
  • High levels of tactile stimulation  is important for normal drain maturation during the first 2 months of life.  Tactile stimulation = skin-to-skin contact with deep touch (as opposed to light touch of the skin) occurring between mother and baby.
  • Quality sensory stimulation makes the brain able to think and regulate.  Positive experiences are embedded in the attachment relationship between mother and baby.
  • Negative experiences (which includes both ABSENCE of good and presence of bad) have LIFETIME negative effects.
The following is the information we must share with others:
 
  • Separation is harmful.  A mother and baby dyad are a single psychobiological organism and should NOT be separated.   Separation leads to many behavioral deviations in later child and adulthood
  • Crying is bad for your baby.  Effects of crying place infants at risk for physiological and psychosocial harm.
  • Keep your baby skin-to-skin for 2 months.  Place baby (in diaper only) on top of mother's heart between her breasts.  The provides deep tactile stimulation and frequent, unobstructed access to nourishment 
  • Read to your baby.  Einstien stated "If you want a smart child, read books to your baby.  But if you want a really smart child, read LOTS of books to your baby!"
                       Breastfed Babies are Best Fed Babies®!
 
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